Why I defend side chicks.

So. She's a side chick, huh?

 she's the loose one, the heartless one, she's robbing you of your man, she deserves to die...mhmkay mhmkay. I hear you...

what I didn't hear you saying is "my man refuses to cut contact with her".
That might not really be my point but where I'm getting with this is that females who have never been cheated with don't understand.

Your man is the one who tells us he's single. Your man is the one who refuses to wear his wedding ring. Nobody holds a gun to his head and forces it off. He's even brave enough to have a secret apartment where you've probably heard is "the office", which he uses to entertain the side chick you hate so much.

So already, he's convinced her he's a bachelor with no children, no wife. She falls for it because just like you she wants to be loved. Keep in,mind he's promised her what he's already given you.

 She's a female, like you. If positions were switched would you think you're a home wrecker who needs to die?  Thought so.

I fell for a young man, he used the right words, right phrases, I was convinced "This was it".A couple of weeks later, it came to my attention there's a woman in his life. was I also not a side chick without my consent? What about women who date a man for 6 years and 3 days later find out he's getting married? Side chicks don't have hearts, right? Mhm, thought so.

Side chicks aren't always "I'm here to break your home". Sometimes this is a woman who is madly in love and sees a future with this man. Like you, once she finds out, she will feel robbed of what she could have had. Not every woman who "messes with your man" intends on hurting you. Like, me, there are women who would RUN as fast as possible soon as they hear he has a woman already.

 What does he do? He lies about you. He keeps you under the carpet, he doesn't claim your or acknowledge you and she's the bad one? Oh. You say she doesn't love herself because she's a side chick. What I don't hear you say is "maybe I should love myself and start going for what I deserve".
Side chicks, the bad evil women, guess what they have hearts too.

It's him who needs his ass whooped, not her. Why are you even promoting girl on girl violence? Where's the sisterhood? Because funny enough brotherhood allows other men to praise your man for doing what he's doing.

 So...side chicks are the evil ones with no feelings and self respect, right?